A Wise Woman’s Guide to Men and Marriage

A Wise Woman’s Guide to Men and Marriage

Hosted by: Dr. Debi Smith, PsyD

Are you passionate about your mate and your marriage? Nevertheless, do you wish your husband would be more romantic? a more confident and compassionate leader? Do you often wonder what he’s thinking? How he feels?...

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The Two Primary Reasons Women Believe Masculinity Is Toxic

Where did we get the idea that masculinity is toxic? Why does this belief persist? I've been teaching women about masculinity for a couple of decades now, and thanks to two factors, the battle between the sexes keeps...
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A Secret Every Man Hides: What He Won't Tell You

Every man has something to hide. What he won't tell you, Dr. Debi will. As a couple's psychologist, I worked with men and their wives for more than two decades. Yes, I studied men academically, but that's not all...
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Can a Woman Be Trusted With a Man's Heart?

Seriously, can a woman be trusted with a man's heart? Every man experiences this phenomenon, but few women grasp what happens to a man the closer he gets to a woman. The experience of "male relational dread" has been...
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What Happens When Her Man Makes Zero Sense

When a man does something a woman doesn’t understand, she comes to a the conclusion that men don’t think deeply about anything, they don’t have feelings, and they do dumb stuff ... both frequently and randomly....
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The Fascinating Psychology Of A Man's Actions: Why He Does What He Does

If you study the psychology of a man's actions, you will discover the reasons he does what he does. First, you will learn that a man loves to provide for his wife. He probably sees himself primarily as a Provider. In...
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Unlocking The Mystery Of The Man Cave

Why does he disappear into the man cave? He's silent and emotionally unavailable. Is it stonewalling? An understanding of men includes a healthy respect for the Man Cave. But as women we typically have a really hard...
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Is It Possible To Change A Man?

How can a woman change a man? More specifically, how can she help her husband become a better man? Women want to see their husbands grow, but there is a trick to the process if you want to change a man. And I'll bet...
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Exploring Marriage And Mental Health: What's Really Going On With Your Partner?

Do you wonder about your marriage and mental health issues your mate may have? Perhaps your mate's mental health is what brought you to seek marriage counseling. When seeking marriage help, you must remember that we...
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A Fast Track Guide To Decoding Your Wife

Do you know the secrets to decoding your wife? Most men don't, which is totally understandable. Your wife is not at all like you ... way beyond your physical differences. Because your wife has a very different set of...
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Created to Be a Hero: Encouraging the Good Guys

In the Beginning of the Story, man was created to be a hero. Some men have failed in their mission. But many more are unsung heroes ... the good guys who take their responsibilities seriously ... and actually want to...
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Why do husbands hate coming home from work?

Your husband is late again. He finally walks in the door. But he’s not really there. You’re trying to get dinner on. And the kids are fighting. Again. Your husband doesn’t even notice. Much less pitch in to help. What...
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The Heroine's Journey, Part 2, The Map

Your confidence has taken a few hits. Maybe a lot of hits. You assigned meaning to the things that happened. The more hurt you are, the more likely you are to believe the worst and prepare for the worst … to try to...
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