Free Resources: Explore the Psychology of Men, Women, and Marriage

I am passionate about helping couples and single adults discover ways to apply healthy values and the findings of scientific research to everyday life and relationships. Yes, I love helping the boy win back his girl. But mostly ... I love helping the girl get what she wants. Which isn't nearly as complicated as the boy believes it to be. 

Just so you know ... I never favor one sex over the other. That would be counterproductive. That means I am not a sexist. And although I love helping women get what they want, I am not a feminist either. I am simply a pragmatist who recognizes and honors the fact that men and women are different by design. This is a safe place where women are valued and men are respected.

A Quick Start Guide

You married one of the good guys. But his behavior doesn't make sense. You're not alone. Many women have the same issues with men. Learn what he's not telling you.

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Understanding Women

What do women want? Learn more about women on this one-page guide for men than you ever could from a lifetime of trying to figure her out on your own. 

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7 Secrets of Masculinity

Discover what men won't say, but women need to hear. Straight up. Simple. To the Point. A One-Page Study Guide for the woman who loves one of the good guys.

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Daily Encouragement

The Psychology of Men, Women, and Marriage? That's a humongous and highly important topic! Get snackable content (free bitesize pieces) delivered to your inbox.

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Love & Respect

This free quiz is based on findings of marital research. Your individual results can help you get an idea of how well you are doing in some vital areas of your relationship.

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A Quiz for Wives

Get ready to rate your mate! How connected is your husband in your marriage? Is he accessible, responsive, and emotionally engaged in your relationship? 

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Why do men stonewall?

Does the man you love withdraw and refuse to face issues? Does he have problems being open about his feelings? Have you tried everything you can think of to fix that?

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Resolving Conflict

This free quiz can help you identify positive strategies you're already using, and what you're missing that might help you succeed in your attempts to resolve conflict.

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Domestic Violence and Abuse

I teach what works in "normal" situations. But this may not apply to yours. This resource can help you decided if you are in an abusive relationship that requires more. 

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If others thrive in Life and Love, so can you!

I am passionate about helping couples and single adults discover ways to apply values that never go out of style and the findings of scientific research to everyday life and love.

Yes, I love helping the boy win back his girl.

But mostly ... I love helping the girl get what she wants.
Which isn't nearly as complicated as the boy believes it to be. 

Dr. Debi Smith, PsyD

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