Free Resources

A Quick Start Guide

What you need to know if you want to grow closer to your mate ... without begging, nagging, or bribing ... standing on your head to please him ... dragging him to therapy ... or doing anything else crazy.

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A Quiz for Wives

How connected is your husband in your marriage? Is he accessible, responsive, and emotionally engaged in your relationship? Answer these short True/False questions and get your score instantly.

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Upgrade the Atmosphere

If you're frustrated and confused by your husband's lack of involvement, learn a simple, easy strategy that will leave you feeling valued, knowing you are his top priority, and enjoying life together.

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If others thrive in Life and Love, so can you!

I am passionate about helping couples and single adults discover ways to apply values that never go out of style and the findings of scientific research to everyday life and love.

Yes, I love helping the boy win back his girl.

But mostly ... I love helping the girl get what she wants.
Which isn't nearly as complicated as the boy believes it to be. 

Dr. Debi Smith, PsyD