A Wise Woman builds her house.

But with her own hands a foolish one tears hers down. PROVERBS 14:1

Happy Marriage begins with a Girl

In fact, there was no such thing as a romantic relationship until God fashioned Eve for Adam. The Creator of the first man knew he was incomplete without her. So he provided his personal ezer kenegdo.

... the man was not created because the woman needed him; the woman was created because the man needed her. 1 Corinthians 11:9 TPT

The Serpent hated Eve and set out to deceive her. He plotted to trap her, knowing she had the power to influence her husband. His scheme worked, as he wedged himself between the man and the woman. 

Marriage doesn't have to go south

Because ... we are not unaware of his schemes. 2 Corinthians 2:11 NIV

For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms. Ephesians 6:12 NIV

And ... God can do anything, you know—far more than you could ever imagine or guess or request in your wildest dreams! He does it not by pushing us around but by working within us, his Spirit deeply and gently within us. Ephesian 3:20 MSG

Imagine what your life would be like if ...

  • you and your husband stop arguing about the same things over and over.
  • he starts helping out more around the house ... without being asked.
  • he spends more quality/romantic time with you.
  • he cherishes you for who you are.

I imagine you'd feel a lot less anxious and frustrated, and a lot more valued and loved.

And so would he.

He needs you. That's a fact.

The Lord God said, "It's not good for the man to be alone. I will make an ezer kenegdo for him." Genesis 2:18

It's crucial that we remember ... the man was not created because the woman needed him; the woman was created because the man needed her. 1 Corinthians 11:9 TPT

So if what we're doing as women isn't helping our men become better, then maybe we should spend some time getting to know what God intends for us to do for them.

It's not about cooking, cleaning, or complaining. Nor about being his coach or executive assistant. You are created to be so much more valuable ... and to mean so much more to him!

Men are born to be our heroes.

Loving husbands and fathers. Yet I know what it's like to have neither. What happened to them? Why do good men fail so miserably?

Finding myself suddenly responsible for raising 3 sons alone made me intensely curious about men. So I went to college and got 3 degrees.

After years of study, I believe ...

If women only knew the truth about what breaks a man & what brings healing to his soul … we could change the world! (That's why I do this.)

Join me on a Journey of Discovery about who your man really is and the truth about your feminine value In this world. Let's keep learning together! Warmly, Dr. Debi

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Are you longing to feel closer to your husband?

You know he's stressed out about something. But he won't say what's bothering him. You try to get him to talk.

Then he disappears into a cave. You believe God designed you to be there for him. But he shuts you out.

Sometimes he gets angry.
 For no apparent reason. You try to get him to settle down. But that makes matters worse.

If you're looking for answers, then you're in the right place.

Because being a Wise Woman means you're ...

  • brave enough to seek the truth about men &
  • confident enough to put that knowledge into practice.

We're here to support you on that journey.

Why I prefer helping Christian Women

Do you love an "impossible" man?

If you believe the problem in your relationship is 100% the guy’s fault, then you probably won’t find this information helpful.

Maybe it really is all his fault. 
Only God could know that for sure.

But sometimes it’s the girl.
 I know because I am one.

Mostly it’s both because you create your dance together. Even so, as a Wise Woman, you have the power to influence & change your dance. Without manipulation or drama!

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