Couple Problems and Patterns, Heal the Connection: How to Fix What Keeps Going Wrong
Are you having couple problems? You're in good company! Every couple gets stuck in a pattern sometimes. It starts with simple problems—something small—like not talking, or a simple comment about the grocery bill—and suddenly you're caught in the same old cycle: one of you pursues, the other pulls away. Your couple problems have become a problematic pattern. But here's the good news: you can change the pattern. And it only takes one person to start.
In this episode, Dr. Debi shows you how to:
- Recognize the hidden cycle that’s keeping you stuck
- Respond instead of react—so you both feel heard
- Use a simple timeout strategy to reset the conversation
- Bring calm and connection back to your relationship
- And most importantly, work together to solve real problems with compassion
💡 Take the free quiz (and view the Patter diagram): "When We’re Not Getting Along" (linked below) to discover your pattern and how to break free from it—starting today.
You don't have to stay stuck. One small shift can lead to big healing. 💛
"When We're Not Getting Along" FREE QUIZ ► https://www.awisewomansguide.com/cycle
GRAB THE GUIDES ► https://www.awisewomansguide.com/free
Explore the Psychology of Men, Women, and Marriage. Discover simple facts about what works, what doesn't, and why. Learn what it means to value women and respect men. I never favor one sex over the other. Because that would be counterproductive! As a former Professor and Couple's Psychologist, I am definitely not a sexist. And although I love helping women get what they want, I am not a feminist either. I am best described as a pragmatist who recognizes and honors the fact that men and women are different by design ... and I freely share what I have learned about intimate relationships with the opposite sex ... because your success matters to me!
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DISCLAIMER: The information provided in this video is for educational purposes only. It is not intended to replace a professional evaluation or treatment for emotional and relational concerns. If you are experiencing severe distress or believe you may be a victim of domestic violence, please contact a licensed mental health professional for assistance. If you are experiencing a life-threatening emergency, please call 911 or go to the nearest emergency room.
