When Your Mate Doesn’t Listen: Communication Explained

Do you ever feel like your mate doesn't listen—or worse, that he/she doesn't even hear your voice, much less understand your words? Does it feel like you’re speaking different languages? That's because you are!

In this episode, Dr. Debi, psychologist and marriage educator, unpacks the real reasons why men and women miscommunicate—and what you can do to fix it.

  • Discover how men and women learn and use language differently
  • Learn why emotional conversations often go sideways
  • Hear relatable stories from real couples (and even one about a frustrated professor!)
  • Get practical tips to improve both talking and listening in your marriage

Whether you're newly married or decades in, understanding these gender-based communication differences will bring more clarity, empathy, and connection to your relationship. Because communication isn’t just about the words—it’s about the meaning behind them.

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Explore the Psychology of Men, Women, and Marriage. Discover simple facts about what works, what doesn't, and why. Learn what it means to value women and respect men. I never favor one sex over the other. Because that would be counterproductive! As a former Professor and Couple's Psychologist, I am definitely not a sexist. And although I love helping women get what they want, I am not a feminist either. I am best described as a pragmatist who recognizes and honors the fact that men and women are different by design ... and I freely share what I have learned about intimate relationships with the opposite sex ... because your success matters to me! #awisewomansguide #relationshippodcast #marriageadvice #whatwomenwant #understandingmen

DISCLAIMER: The information provided in this video is for educational purposes only. It is not intended to replace a professional evaluation or treatment for emotional and relational concerns. If you are experiencing severe distress or believe you may be a victim of domestic violence, please contact a licensed mental health professional for assistance. If you are experiencing a life-threatening emergency, please call 911 or go to the nearest emergency room.