Breaking the Cycle: When He Shuts Down and She Pushes Harder

Are you focused on breaking the cycle in your marriage? Emily was exhausted. She kept trying—initiating conversations, planning date nights, even suggesting counseling. But the more she tried, the more Kyle pulled away.

• To her, it felt like he didn’t care.
• To him, it felt like he could never get it right.
• And instead of breaking the cycle, therapy made it worse.

In this episode of The Revolutionary Marriage Podcast, Dr. Debi shares Emily and Kyle’s story and reveals why so many couples get stuck in the “pursue-withdraw” cycle—and why traditional counseling often misses the real issue. You’ll discover how the differences between men and women can be a source of conflict… or the key to deeper connection.

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Disclaimer: The information provided is for educational purposes only and does not constitute psychological or medical advice. This is not therapy, and participation does not establish a therapist–client relationship. Although Dr. Debi Smith is a psychologist by training, she serves in this context as a marriage educator and couples coach—offering guidance, not clinical treatment. She teaches the Psychology of Men, Women, and Marriage, and helps participants turn insight into action and knowledge into transformation.