I had no idea how sensitive men are when I was growing up. If you'd have told me back then, I wouldn't have believed you. Because all the evidence said the opposite! The men I knew appeared to be highly insensitive! They never seemed like they had feelings at all! Boy was I misled on that one! It wasn't until I started studying men in college and grad school that I began to realize exactly how sensitive men are ... and the amazing reasons men learn to hide that fact.