I believe in Challenge by Choice!
You're here because you want to learn how to live like a Heroine ... or a Hero!
Yes, men are welcome here, too!
- You refuse to play the victim in your own story.
- And you don't want to play the villain either, do you?
Sometimes, you just don't know what more you can do!
Your success matters to me. That's the reason I am so passionate about helping couples and single adults learn how to apply healthy (life-giving) values and the findings of scientific research to everyday life and relationships.
I am not a sexist.
And although I love helping women get what they want, I am not a feminist either.
I am simply a pragmatist who recognizes and honors the fact that men and women are different by design. I developed A Wise Woman's Guide because ... as the ancient proverbs says, "A Wise Woman builds her house. But with her own hands ... a foolish one tears hers down." The same could be said about a Wise Man, yes?

Hello, I'm Dr. Debi.
As a former Professor and Couple's Counselor,
I love teaching the boy how to win back his girl.
And I love teaching the girl how to get what she wants.
Which isn't nearly as difficult as he's been led to believe.
Just so you know ... I never favor one sex over the other. That would be counterproductive.
Drop-in Zoom Call
I'm NOT here to be your therapist or your coach. I'm here to teach you what works, what doesn't, and why.
Whenever you want to understand what's happening, book a Drop-in Zoom call.
I'm available most weeks, but my schedule fills quickly, so plan ahead!
My Office Hours (US Central Time)
My calendar shows your time zone, so you don't have to do the math!
- Monday: 12pm to 5pm
- Tuesday: 12pm to 8pm
- Wednesday: 12pm to 5pm
- Thursday: 12pm to 5pm

On-Demand Workshops
A Growing Library of On-Demand Resources to jumpstart your progress. Most are for women, but I haven't forgotten the men! Guys need some quick-win resources, too.
So new titles are already in the pipeline for men, women, and couples.
- Improve Communication
- Intimate Conflict Resolution

Men, Women, and Marriage
Can you save your marriage? What would it take to make your "good enough" marriage great ... or your "already great" marriage better than ever?
Men and Women are Different. So I've created two separate courses of study!
- The Hero's Journey
- The Heroine's Journey