The Psychology of Men, Women, and Marriage

Dr. Debi Smith, PsyD

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Hello, I'm Dr. Debi.

As a former Professor and Couple's Counselor,
I love teaching the boy how to win back his girl. 
And I love teaching the girl how to get what she wants. 
Which isn't nearly as difficult as he's been led to believe.

Just so you know ... I never favor one sex over the other. That would be counterproductive. 

I believe in Challenge by Choice!

You're here because you want to learn how to live like a Heroine ... or a Hero!
Yes, men are welcome here, too!

  • You refuse to play the victim in your own story.
  • And you don't want to play the villain either, do you?

Sometimes, you just don't know what more you can do!

Your success matters to me. That's the reason I am so passionate about helping couples and single adults learn how to apply healthy (life-giving) values and the findings of scientific research to everyday life and relationships. 

I believe men are amazing. But I am not a sexist.

And although I love helping women get what they want, I am not a feminist either.

I am simply a pragmatist who recognizes and honors the fact that men and women are different by design. I developed A Wise Woman's Guide because ... as the ancient proverbs says, "A Wise Woman builds her house. But with her own hands ... a foolish one tears hers down." The same could be said about a Wise Man, yes?

 

 

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I'm NOT here to be your therapist or your coach. I'm here to teach you what works, what doesn't, and why.

Whenever you want to understand what's happening, book a Drop-in Zoom call

I'm available most weeks, but my schedule fills quickly, so plan ahead!

My Office Hours (US Central)
My calendar shows your time zone, so you don't have to do the math!

  • Monday: 12pm to 5pm
  • Tuesday: 12pm to 8pm
  • Wednesday: 12pm to 5pm
  • Thursday: 12pm to 5pm
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Start here. Study here. Win here.

Like going to college to earn a degree, EME is a highly structured approach to learning.

But only you know where you and your mate are now in terms of what you are ready for next.

  • So feel free to jump ahead to wherever you think you'd feel most productive!
  • Yes, EME will challenge you, but I also don't want to overwhelm you. 
  • You get to accept this Challenge by Choice!
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