Discover Why Traditional Counseling So Often Fails

— and a Breakthrough Plan for Couples Who Want to Stay Together & Be Happy

New Workshop!
Fast-Action Bonus: Register by August 31 to get a FREE 30-minute private Zoom call with me BEFORE the workshop.

This is your chance to share your unique challenges, ask questions, and get personalized guidance
to help you prepare to get the most out of the workshop!

What if the reason you struggle ...

isn’t poor communication, lack of love, or not enough effort
—but that you look at one another through the wrong lens?

 

And the more you try to fix what's broken—by talking more, trying harder, asking nicely, and even going to counseling—the worse it gets. 

  • You're not failing.
  • You don't need another script. 
  • You need The Breakthrough Marriage Plan.

💬 "We don't yell or fight—but we're not really connected either."

 

Sound familiar? 

Maybe you've tried counseling. Maybe you've tried more than one counselor.
Maybe you've read all the recommended books and attended the top-rated marriage seminars. 
Maybe you've both been "working on yourselves. But somehow, the emotional distance between you just keeps growing. 

 

You've repeated the same pattern for way too long—always with the same outcome.

  • One of you reaches out—the other pulls away. 
  • One of you tries to talk about it—the other shuts down. 
  • One of you is desperate for answers—the other just wants peace. 

 

You've even played this out in your counseling sessions!

Even with outside "help," you remain stuck in a pattern that make you feel unseen and unloved—no matter which role you play.
Then at the end of the session, you write your counselor a check—and schedule your next appointment. 

  • But no matter how much time and money you spend, nothing changes. It never does.
  • You both feel the hopeless deep inside. You're trapped.

 

You want more than traditional counseling has to offer.

No, you don't have to settle. This is NOT as good as it gets!

 

What if the secret isn't really about fixing anything, but about learning to appreciate and harness the energy your gender differences create?

  • This 2-hour workshop will show you exactly what's happening—and why it's keeping you stuck.
  • Then give you The Breakthrough Marriage Plan you need to make lasting changes—so you can connect—for real.

The Breakthrough Marriage Plan

Ditch the Neutralizing Approaches and Harness the Power of Your Gender Differences

 

When: Wednesday, September 10, Noon-2pm (US Central Time) 
Location: Live on Zoom
Cost: $197 per couple 
Replay: Available for 48 Hours

When You Register, You’ll Also Get:

  • A printable workbook
  • Priority invitation to a Private Consultation

 

Fast-Action Bonus: 

Register within the first 48 hours to get a 
FREE 30-minute private Zoom call with me BEFORE the workshop. 

 

Register Now for $197

"We thank God for leading us to you! From you, we’ve each learned so much about each other—about communication and understanding each other’s emotions. We cannot thank you enough for saving our marriage (which would seem almost impossible to most) and restoring it to something even better than before the separation! We love you." 

~ Jackson & Chalaun, California

⏰ In Just 2 Hours, You'll Discover:

  • Why your current communication style—yes, even that so-called “healthy” version—is reinforcing your disconnection
  • The #1 mistake most couples therapists make—and why this mistake actually makes things worse for you
  • How men and women process emotions and stress differently—and why that can be a good thing
  • The secrets to emotional connection—and why it has to happen before anything else changes
  • A clear next step to reconnect deeply and move forward—together

âś… This Workshop Is For You If ...

  • You're tired of feeling like roommates—or walking on eggshells
  • You long to feel emotionally close again, but don't know how to make it happen
  • You've tried counseling, but it didn't help—or worse yet—counseling made things worse 
  • You both want to grow, but you're stuck in a repeating pattern that feels like going in circles
  • You're open to a new way forward, based on real psychology—not commonly-accepted advice 

 

Imagine feeling emotionally close again, laughing together,
and knowing you’re on the same team. 

Yes! That’s possible when you apply The Breakthrough Marriage Plan.

 

Register Now for $197

❌ This Workshop Is Not For You If ...

  • You're looking for quick fixes
  • You're hoping your partner will change
  • You're in a crisis involving abuse, addictions, or infidelity

If you're in crisis, please seek specialized support. This workshop is educational, not therapy.

Frequently Asked Questions

Hello, I'm Dr. Debi

 

I'm a psychologist, couples coach, and leading expert in the psychology of men, women, and marriage.

For over 25 years, I've helped couples break free from painful patterns and build healthy marriages that are deeply connected and made to last. 

My approach to helping couples is grounded in research—not trends—and is uniquely designed to work with the way men and women are truly wired.

How is my approach to marriage different?

 

  • I never take sides.
  • I never teach you how to “negotiate your needs.”
  • I never expect one to change while the other stays comfortable.

 

Instead, I show you how to reconnect—by understanding the deep (and often misunderstood) "hard wiring" of men vs. women, and rekindling the dreams and desires that make real change possible.

 

This isn’t therapy. And it's not magic. ✨ It's psychology.
The education and guidance you should have gotten years ago.

đź’Ś At the End of This Workshop ...

 You'll have more than just insight.
 

You’ll leave with a clear, actionable plan to break the cycle of disconnection and start building the kind of relationship you’ve always wanted. 

And if you're ready for deeper transformation, you'll be invited to book a private consultation with me to explore whether you're a good fit for my high-level couples coaching program.

This is your first step.

đź”’Space is limited.

 

This is an intimate, interactive workshop—not a mass-market webinar. 
Come ready to listen, reflect, and engage.

Fast-Action Bonus: Register by August 31 and get a FREE 30-minute private Zoom call with me BEFORE the workshop. This is your chance to share your unique challenges, ask questions, and get personalized guidance to help you prepare for the workshop and get the most out of it!

 

Register Now for $197

đź’¬ What Couples Are Saying:

 

“We’ve been in therapy before, and both of us always left sessions with the feeling that my husband was the problem. Dr. Debi gave us a completely different lens—and for the first time, we’re actually getting somewhere.” 

— Emily & Kyle, California

 

“This workshop felt like someone finally put words to what we’ve been experiencing for years. Eye-opening and so worth it.” 

— Marcus & Rachel, New York

Your Relationship Deserves a Real Chance.

This isn't therapy. And it's not magic. ✨ It's psychology. 

Backed by research. Delivered with compassion.

 A transformative 2-hour experience

—what's really missing for you
—and what's possible for your marriage 

 

Reconnect. Grow closer, Move forward together.

✨The Breakthrough Marriage Plan✨

Ditch the Neutralizing Approaches that are so common and ineffective.

—Harness the Power & Energy of Your Gender Differences Instead!

Wednesday, September 10, 2025

  

Spots are limited, and this workshop will fill up fast.
Don’t wait—secure your spot today!

Register Now for $197

 

Disclaimer: The information provided is for educational purposes only and does not constitute psychological or medical advice. This is not therapy, and participation does not establish a therapist–client relationship. Although Dr. Debi Smith is a psychologist by training, she serves in this context as a marriage educator and couples coach—offering guidance, not clinical treatment. She teaches the Psychology of Men, Women, and Marriage, and helps participants turn insight into action and knowledge into transformation.