All The Tools You Need To Create a Joyful Marriage

Your blueprint for a beautiful relationship.
Instant encouragement. Practical tips. Biblically-sound. Research-based.

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Significant Relationship Gains

“Male-female relationships can be difficult. Both genders need understanding and skills to have great connections. Dr. Debi has written a great book with biblical understanding, research-based principles, and applicable skills. The material will make significant gains in any relationship. I highly recommend this book.”

~ Dr. John Townsend, Organizational Consultant, Psychologist, & Co-Author of Boundaries

Writing a Love Story

“Dr. Debi has a superb ability to write in a way that feels conversational and casual, weaving together psychological research, her Christian faith, and her love of dance. She uncovers how Scripture is a love story and how God hopes for us to find love in our own lives. She shares her own stories, connecting you with her heart and making you want to be a 'hopeful romantic' too! I highly recommend this book!”

~ Dr. Curtis Lehmann, Clinical Psychologist.

When Partners Are in Sync

“Marriage – like dancing – is so much sweeter when partners are in sync. Thank you, Dr. Debi, for providing a fun, informative evening filled with insight into the men in our lives and ways to improve our relationships.
I only wish I had been aware of these simple tools years ago. It would have made the bumpy dance floor of life so much smoother!”

~ Marilyn, who got the very first edition!

This guy is not the only man who loves this book!

I cannot tell you how many men have shown up in my office with my book filled with sticky notes.

One man told me, "On page #___, you said _________. I've been trying to tell my wife that for 20 years. How can I get her to hear me?"

Long story short: He brought his wife in, and I helped them both have the conversation they needed to have. Beautiful.


Fred, Dr. Debi, and the Dance With Me Team demonstrate Victorian-style dance at Mariners Church in Irvine, CA.

Vintage dance is stylish, elegant, easy to learn, fun ... and very, very romantic. A man & woman dancing together in three-quarter time is the best metaphor for – and experience of – Romance.

  • He takes the lead. She follows.
  • He guides & protects her.
  • She inspires & influences him, even as she admires him
  • and makes him look good to everyone who is watching.

The Beauty of a Woman
The Wonder of a Man

Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.  ~ Ephesians 5:21

This passage applies to the body of believers in fellowship with one another, so it naturally applies to husbands and wives as well. However, just how husbands and wives are to submit to one another is easily misunderstood in our current culture. That's what we are all about - teaching what submission looks like in the 21st Century. Couples attend to one another's needs and are responsive to one another in light of his/her unique design and purpose.

As a psychologist, Dr. Debi teaches exactly how and why the Apostle Paul’s instructions work in favor of both sexes who want a Blessed Romance.

Table of Contents

  1. Your Love Story Matters
  2. Our Father's Love Story
  3. The Psychology of Relationships
  4. The Beauty of a Woman
  5. The Wonder of a Man
  6. Life at the Tower of Babel
  7. Submission in the 21st Century
  8. The Perfect Partnership

Yes! Women love Ephesian 5 Romance, too!

“I’ve been telling so many women how your seminar & book saved my marriage. I’m so excited to share this life changing info with all the women in my life.” ~ Lisa

This could be one of the most life-changing marriage books you will ever read.


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